There is something so cool about the juxtaposition of a delicate garment against a tougher element. Lace dresses and boots. Biker jackets with wispy confections underneath. Beautiful and intricate fabrics in unexpected darker colours.
A more substantial piece against something pretty lends an edge and can take it out of saccharine sweet territory. A touch of dainty paired with a something tough can add whimsy to the severe. It’s also a great way to add autumnal elements to a summery wardrobe. And with the weather in Brisbane at the moment, slight nods to autumn fashion is all the sunshine will allow.
Here are some ways you can wear the pretty/tough trend …
- Chunky leather boots with more delicate garments
A perennial favorite going into Winter and in vogue this year with the 90s being a major influence. For a boho look, pair a maxi with brown leather ankle boots. Or rock out with a pair of chunky black boots and a floral dress. If you’re not so girly, you can always try a dark top, jeans and boots and then add the delicate with a pretty kimono. - Add a jacket or vest
A moto jacket will immediately amp up the cool factor. Vests also add a winter element and a tougher dimension (while remaining trans-seasonal). - Add an edgy bag to a pretty outfit
Not really into anything too tough? The addition of a leather bag with a few rock-chic references can add just a touch of rebel. - Ripped jeans with pretty tops
Everyone is doing ripped jeans this season and I think they look awesome. My kids always ask what happened to me and I generally make up a story about tigers. (Note: this story may have become scarier with the recent release of Zootopia). To tone down the rock chic element, I like to pair mine with pretty things on top. - Use structure against a softer element
This whole look is about using structure against softer elements. For instance, black leggings (wet look or leather if you are brave) paired with a long floaty top. Or a black turtleneck with a softly styled skirt. You can tie the structural element back in with your jewellery. - Delicate fabrics in darker colours
Lace doesn’t need to be white. In black it immediately takes on an edgier role. Darker jewelled tones work just as nicely. - Contrast your makeup and/or hair with your clothes
Of course you don’t have to just rely on your clothes to create a pretty/tough juxtaposition. Consider very soft makeup with a harder look. A strong lip in a dark colour with a pretty dress can also bring a summery look into winter territory.
You can check out some more ideas on my Pinterest board: Pretty But Tough
Boots and dresses have been my jam since the 90s- glad it’s coming back!
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I was out the other day and saw a teenage girl in a floral skater skirt, a black singlet, a choker necklace and cherry-red docs. Had to a double take – really felt like I was back in the 90s.
I’m a big fan of pretty tough!
It’s such a cute look – and easily achievable too.
Ps I love your Pinterest board. Im now following you!
Oh thanks – I’ll have to add some more things.
Love those brown boots! I am in serious need to un-mummify my wardrobe right now, thanks for the inspiration 🙂
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Good luck with the de-mumification!
Love this. Off to share it on my Styled by bec Facebook page.
Aw thanks Bec.
OMG number 5 is my dream outfit! Fantastic!
And so easy to achieve as well. This is seriously one of those $8 dress up tutus from the party section in Big W.
Love this look! With the weather getting cooler I’m loving being back in my biker boots, especially with leggings and a dress. I adore your ripped jeans and the shoes you’re wearing with them. Gorgeous outfit!
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Oh I love that look! Definitely feeling the ripped jeans at the moment.
Love them all! Can’t pick a fave! It’s such a killer combo adding the delicate against the tough.
It really is!
Loving the pretty tough combination . So many great outfits here and they all look amazing on you . Boots are going to be a staple in my wardrobe this season for sure . X
It just needs to get cool enough to wear them more regularly. Bring on winter!
I love this look and you’ve totally nailed it! I so want to add some brown leather ankle boots to my shoe wardrobe this year!
I wear mine ALL the time.
Love every suggestion, what a great post Robyna! Thanks for showing my Philosophy vest so well x
Thanks so much for having me as part of the Philosophy bloggy family. This vest is going to be on high rotation once it gets a little bit cooler.
I was super stoked when boots and dresses/skirts made a return; I loved it in the 90s and I love it again now! I keep my boot sleek these days instead of the 90s hiking-style chunkiness to bring it up to date but the feels are the same. I’ve also made a return to distressed denim and love it with a softer feminine top.
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Fashion at the moment is lovely!
I am in love with the tough/pretty trend. It is me down to a t. I feel too ‘old’ for the rock chick look, but I’m not myself without a nod to a little edge! x
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I think that’s what so nice about pretty/tough – if you feel you are too old for either side it brings some balance. Although my fashion rule is that no-one is too old for any trend.
I love this mix, especially the chunky boot and dress and the ripped jeans with pretty top. I can’t wait for it to finally cool off to pull out my jeans again, though I am a little worried it could get depressing fast with some size issues. Bahahaha.
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It’s like those jeans sit in judgement all summer, just waiting. waiting. waiting.